We are not finished when we are born. It’s the parent’s duty to mold you into what you should be, not into what they think you should be. Unfortunately most only have the blueprint they were molded from. Many of those blueprints need drastic alterations. Some are successful, but many more make a worse pattern than they were molded from.
They begin to grow and progress, and you feed and supply all their needs.
Until one day they decide they can fly on their own, they hop out and flutter their wings.
Some think, Oh no, this is more difficult than they expected , and fail miserable. They flutter back to the nest again and again.
Others hop out of the nest and are ready to fly. They have had good lessons and well prepared to find their own worms.